Dont change your "name"

I think it is easy, when you lose a child, to then identify yourself as a mom who lost a child. You no longer identify as aidens mom, or Brices mom, but as the mother of a passed on child. A mourning mom, a broken mom. You are all those things. Your still a mom no matter where they are, and by only identifying yourself as a mom of an angel, your immediately withdrawing from being a mom to anyone else. Your still a mom, to them all.